ShOH!down: Public vs. Private Schools
This is a big one. Let’s start with the basic premise that both public and private schools can be a wonderful place for your children to learn. And let’s confess that it’s going to be a tie… we’re not stupid enough to presume we know what’s best on such a divisive and conditional decision. But we’d still like to throw our two cents in on this showdown, maybe offer you some new things to think about in the battle of public versus private.
Oh how I wish we could know. Public schools offer certified teachers who receive higher pay and generally have more qualifications; private schools offer smaller class size, advanced curriculum, and teachers who tend to have an advanced degree in their field rather than an education degree. Study after study has proven… nothing. And more than anything it likely depends on the school. One public school is not the same as another, likewise for private schools. You’re going to have to go on the opinion of parents in the know to figure out the best fit for your child. But as far as whether public or private is better over all? Depends on your child.
Okay, public is free. Private school varies, from not-free to shockingly expensive. My sister paid upwards of $7,000 a year for one child. Yikes! Around here, however, the private schools are very reasonable and offer financial support on top of that. Most private schools also have busing available, although it’s a little more complicated (such as your child getting bussed to the public school, and then catching a second bus to get to the private school). The parents paying for school tend to be more involved and believe the school is worth every penny.
Public schools have a lot more of that going on. But the private schools offer the basics, which is probably enough unless your child has some specialized interests.
Public schools have a responsibility to teach all students, but they are not known for flexibility. There is red tape, and they have to follow it. This is great for handicapped children who need extra help. This is not great for other medical issues which might need something out of the ordinary- such as a child carrying his/her own medicine. Additionally, public schools have a bigger bureaucracy which can make it harder for decisions to be made quickly while private schools have a leaner management structure. There are also political and union issues that come along with public schools. Private schools usually don’t have teacher unions to deal with.
Many parents are convinced that kids need to experience “the real world” as it can only be experienced in public schools. Others are positive that a young child should be kept safe, and “the real world” can wait until it’s no longer possible to hide.
Like I warned you, we’re just doing a tie on this one. But do you think one is better than the other? Let us know!






Did you actuall do any acutal research or talk to anyone involved with either of the parochial or “private” schools in the area? There is plenty going on in all of our local schools , which ever one your child goes to..and as for number five..I don’t even know where to start with one! I have no idea what you mean by real world experiences. How can you or anyone make a statement that a parochial or private school do not offer real world experiences and that public schools do? How about the parents that pay for their childrens school are more involved? Anyone out there who sends there child to a public school and is involved should be offended by that statement!!
Amy, thank you so much for reading and for your comment! This seems to be a topic you care about and so do we. We also care about how you feel, so first and foremost, we want to apologize if we offended you.
Part of the reason this ShOH!down was a tie is because there was no obvious winner to either of us. I have chosen to send my children to public school while my partner sends hers to private. Though we’ve made different choices, we each respect the other’s decision simply because every family (and every child) is different and our academic choices reflect that. We can both see the benefits of both public and private school. So, when writing this piece, we did not simply share our opinions, we looked to others for information. We read articles, studies and research – like this one and this one that suggested that parental involvement is higher for families who pay tuition. We see now that we should have cited our sources when making a statement like this. And you are right, we should have done more research with local schools beyond the ones with whom we are involved.
As for the “real world experiences,” perhaps we could have said it better. We were referring to the fact that public schools must accept everyone and therefore reflect the “real world” or community we live in, while private schools have the ability to define their own community through the admissions process. Personally, I know a number of parents who take comfort in sending their children to a private school for this very reason, so we felt it was worth mentioning. Again, we apologize if we shared that viewpoint in an offensive way.
We appreciate your feedback and we’d love to know more about what you think about public vs. private schools.
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